October 24, 2014

From the Archives: The Photo Archives That Is

Forgot all about these pictures. Back sometime in September, we thought it would be fun to go for a drive to Antelope Island for Family Home Evening. We had a great time, except for the fact that Hallie (Yes, Hallie- not even Jace!) peed her pants. It was bad news. We then made her switch outfits with Flor, who was wearing a dress, and Flor wore Hallie's shirt as a dress. Creative parenting, right there.

It was really cool to see our lovely little area from across the Great Salt Lake. We really do live in such a pretty place. 

Well then. That's a great photo, right? 

Even better, the family selfie. 



Salt Lake City across the way

The Bountiful Temple 

And these are specifically for my mom. Mom, you can even copy them and then print them for the box you have at home. Some buffs to add to your lovely collection.

You can take this one too. What a cutie.
Fun place. Pretty drive if you're up for one!

October 4, 2014

September photo dump


Ahh, here we go again, my lovely once a month photo drop. Here's a bit of what happened in September: 

Randomness: 

Oh, just the kids being sweet to each other. Such a random occurrence that it must be documented. 

I think she enjoyed having daddy lay on her lap? 
But helping daddy cook dinner makes her much happier. :)

BBQ and then making smores on the lovely grill. 

Just the kids being cute one day at dinner. They're (sometimes) sweeties. 
Flor started therapies at Shriner's hospital! Her first day of PT, she got right on this adaptive trike and pedaled it around without help. CRAZY! I was so impressed. She's such a smarty. 
Riding the Frontrunner train while we waited for the car to get fixed in Provo that one day. The kids loved it. Jace is OBSESSED with trains. OBSESSED. Devin and I were just saying today how sad it is that he never got to have a relationship with my Uncle Charlie. They would have been buddies (Uncle Charlie worked for Union Pacific. He died in 2007 since I don't expect any of you to remember that. Right after Devin and I got married.) 

One day we got ambitious and let Flor stay in undies for the morning. She kept them dry! Not going to potty train anytime soon, though. 
After dropping off some documents in SLC one day, we took a spontaneous trax ride to Temple Square. Hallie refused to be in the pictures, but Jace hammed it up quite well himself. He's a handsome dude.
Later that day, we went ut to lunch with Che & Carlie. Jace and his bestie Hudson. They are pretty cute.
Sweet baby Emma! We got to go to Idaho to meet Emma a few days after she was born. This is my sister Jennifer and her husband Steve's baby. She is girl #3 for them and we're so excited she has joined the family!

blurry, but oh well. 
 Birthday Celebrations: 
Also while in Idaho, we celebrated mine and Jen's birthdays at my Grandma's house. She made her famous German Chocolate cake with homemade frosting. We felt very honored as it is not very often that she cooks anything anymore. It was delicious as usual.

Thanks Jen, for letting me steal this picture, It's always been fun to share my birthday with my sister. 

Missing a few ladies- namely my mother who was in Italy (I know, I feel so bad for her), Che, Carlie, and Hailie Birch. Love this family of mine. And don't be hating on my pants. I love them. 

My grandma was so cute-- she got all these balloons and had them all over the house for the party. So sweet. And, hi Uncle Charlie.  :)



While in town, we went to visit Linda too. Always good to go spend some time at the cemetery. Miss her so much.

On my actual birthday-- here's the spoils. The best part was going out with Devin ALONE! We went to dinner and then to a movie together, kidless. Amazing, I tell ya. 

He's a keeper. Love him. 29 won't be so bad with him by my side. 

Still laughing about this...This is part of the picture Hallie drew me for my b-day. Of course those are sleeves...

Every year I celebrate with my long-time friend Jill too. Her birthday is the week after mine, so we always do something together! This year we went to Cheesecake Factory and gorged ourselves until sick. She's a great friend and I am so glad to have her in my life. We've been friends for 20 years now! 
 Friends: 
Hallie has become really good friends with a little girl in our neighborhood named Nora. Nora's mom is the one who watches the kids when I work and it is working out so well. Nora is one of 5 girls in her family and those girls are all just so sweet and kind. They have a daughter Flor's age who is in her primary class and the first week at church, she just took Flor under her wing. It is so sweet to see and makes my heart so happy. Whenever I drop the kids off at their house, Hallie and Jace both run right in and hug all the kids. They love each other. It's so great to have such wonderful and supportive people in our neighborhood! I also am so glad that Hallie has such a good friend. They are the only two their age in our ward that go to the same school (there is one other little boy who is a kindergartner too, but he is zoned for another school).
The girls on ride-your-bike to school day. 

We went to the zoo one day with my friends Kim and Meg. I should have taken a picture of us, but I didn't. I just have a few of the kids. 

We had Nora with us that day as her mom had a dentist appointment. 

The kids loved the otters and seals best...of all animals? The otters and seals? Weird. 

Cute kiddos

The end. Until next month. 

Man V. Mud 2014

So sad that I am so behind on documenting the every day events....sorry for the next few boring posts that are coming- lots and lots of pictures to post.

We participated in Man V. Mud for the 4th year in a row and dare I say-- this year was the most fun yet?? Is that possible? A few things made it so:

1) Our costume theme. Amazing. And so Clark Family.

2) The addition of Sue-Dawg running with us. That woman is a riot. Anything she does is hilarious and fun. I mean, she calls herself Sue-Dawg. Not much else needs to be said about her.

3) The loss of Che' and Landon's awesome track suit pants halfway through the race. Yes, they were ripped off of their very bodies. No, not on purpose. Yes, they then had to finish the race with some creative solutions to keep them sort of covered. Hilarious. Apparently those suits only looked fancy, they weren't actually fancy.

4) The obstacles were better than ever. We started later than we were supposed to and were some of the only ones left on the track & that was awesome- we didn't have to wait for anything.

So-- without further ado, a few (A LOT) of pictures of our Christmas Vacation Man V. Mud experience:

The women...

Aunt Bethany

Ellen and Clark. I clearly operated on my shirt all by myself. Thank you DI for coming through once again for our costumes. 

Todd & Margo. THOSE SUITS!!

Hmm, Uncle Lewis and Audrey, who failed to show up in costume. We love them anyway. 

This is how much Ryen loves pictures. We had to tackle her and this is still all we got. Like mother, like daughter. 


Obviously I was into selfies with everyone this day....so unlike me. 

Rusty and Rocky. 


The whole crew of us.

Uncle Eddy, Katherine, and Rocky. Isn't Uncle Eddy just a gem in his robe?!

After. We aren't that muddy because the end is a huge slide into a pit of water, which effectively clean you right up. 

Brad and Sue got twinner nose owies after diving into the bubble pit and taking a hard landing. Hahahah! Can't say the mud run is the safest event, but if that's the worst of it, I think we're doing pretty good!
Until next year...love these family traditions we have!


October 2, 2014

Process and Timeline

I have had a few questions regarding the adoption process and what the timeline looks like, so I thought this would be a good place to note it all, where we're at, how long each step might take, and what it costs. I'll update it as we go. Maybe this can be a resource for someone else down the road who is looking into international adoption. 

1) Home Study & Psychological testing- Home study DONE & Psych testing DONE.
Timeframe: We started our home study July 16 and received the final copy October 29. We started the Psychological testing August 12 & got the written report September 25.
Cost: $1500 for the home study & $1300 for the Psychological testing. 

2) File the I-800a- Application for Determination of Suitability to Adopt a Child from a Convention Country (I-600a if it is a non-Hague adoption). We send a copy of our complete home study with this application and then wait to be given an appointment to get fingerprints done IF the home study is accepted right away. Oftentimes families will get RFE's (Request for Further Evidence)-- which we did with Flor. I can't remember what it was for, but that of course delays the time frame.
Time Frame: 45-90 days for approval

Cost: $890
Sent: 11/1/2014
RFE: 12/27/2014
Approval: 1/8/2015

3) Compile dossier (A dossier is a collection of papers or other sources, containing detailed information about a particular person or subject- Wikipedia): 
 *Application for Ecuador/Solicitud
       Be sure to put Passport photo of each applicant.
 * Applicants Photos
      Nice photo of applicants. Two poses please.
 *Post Adoption Follow-up Authorization/Servicios
 *Certificate proving the 10 Hours of Hague Training
 * Home Photos
     Front of house, back of house, main living areas, child’s bedroom. Print on photo paper or attach to card stock.
 * Birth Certificates of all in household.
 *  Color Copy of current, signed passports for applicants.
 *  State Criminal History Clearance-for all adults in household.
 * Employment letters with last year’s tax return front page.
 * Medicals with doctor’s name printed and license number.
 *Marriage License, if applicable.
 * Power of Attorney/Poder
        This is for our attorney to act on your behalf until you arrive in Ecuador.
 *Home Study.
 *Psychological Assessment.
 *Letters of Personal Reference. (2)                                              
 * I-797 approval notice from USCIS-this comes after we've have been fingerprinted.
* A stack of photos of our family for the child to have

Each form must be notarized and apostilled (An "apostille" is a form of authentication issued to documents for use in countries that participate in the Hague Convention of 1961) Basically, a verification of the notary's stamp and an additional stamp. This is done at the state capitol.
The dossier is sent to our agency first, verified for all documents, and then sent to Ecuador to be translated.

Time Frame: compiled while we were waiting for the other approval. Apostille/notary process=1 week
Cost: $15 per document for the apostille x 28 documents =$420
$7500 adoption fee due to the agency at this time. 
Dossier sent 1/22/15, expected to arrive at our agency 1/23/15. Agency fees paid at the same time. UPDATE: Dossier sent back to be re-notarized and apostilled due to date error (UGH!) Re-sent end of February, agency sent to Ecuador on 2/27/2015. 

Ecuador Rejected Dossier: 3/24/2015
Resent with updates (Package 1): 4/18/2015
Resent (Package 2): 5/27/2015


4) Wait to be officially assigned, or matched, with our child. The assignment committee in Ecuador meets weekly. Some families seem to be matched quickly and others it takes some time. I remember with Flor it took 3 weeks. 
 Time Frame: It took about 6 weeks this time.
Cost: Nothing
ASSIGNMENT DATE: 7/16/2015 (though we were notified 7/24/2015)

5) Submit I-800 document. This must include assignment document, medical/social/psychological reports on the child, the child's birth certificate, and the child's abandonment decree. These must all be translated into English first. Our agency does a lot to help on this step.The I-800 is used to verify that the child can enter the United States.
Time Frame; 45-90 days
Cost: Nothing
Actual Time Frame: 2 weeks! Approval date 8/17/2015. Submitted 7/31/2015, arrived in their lock box 8/4/2015. 

6) Await Article 5. This comes after the I-800 is approved and is the notice that you are officially approved on all fronts. This document also states that you are eligible to travel, 
Time Frame; at the end of visa application it is issued immediately.
Cost: $2500 for in country costs as due at this point to our agency. Paid earlier in the summer this time around, just so it was done.

7) Arrange travel- usually for about 2.5 weeks after the Article 5 is issued.
Time Frame: In country, families are now spending about 6 weeks. We were there 10 with Flor, so 6 kind of sounds like a walk in the park, as long as that is really what happens...
Cost: This is our overall biggest expense. We are figuring about $7000 for flights, $3000 maybe for costs at home while we are gone, $4000 for rent, food, getting around, etc. while there (planning for longer than 6 weeks of course. We thought we'd be able to get a cheap place to stay when we were there last time, but it really was similar costs to here. We spent $1000 per month for rent that we were there-- and that was 2.5 months.) 

8) In country process- well, that can just be detailed in another spot. That's a whole issue in and of itself. :) 

So, since we are only on step one, we are looking at months and months out. We are really hoping for less than a year. Please pray with us for speediness at each step!